What can I expect from AA?

If a family member, judge, school, employer, or even yourself, has thought or suggested you should attend a meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous, there may be belief, or evidence, that you have a drinking problem. If you have an attendance card to be signed most AA groups will cooperate and sign them. Remember no AA group is obligated to sign any outside papers if they choose not to. AA groups do not affiliate with any outside agency, but, will cooperate with them if they choose.
On the meeting page of this website you will see several options for AA meetings. One of the options should fit your area and your availability to attend. Please read the description and meeting code information on the meeting list page to better understand which meeting will best suit you.

Do I have to give my full name?

When you go to an AA meeting you don’t have to give your full name. Some groups will ask the newcomers to “introduce themselves by first name only”, this is so everyone can get to know each other. Participation in AA is voluntary.

Will I have to speak?

It’s not necessary to explain why you are there. Others will share but no one will think it odd if you choose to remain silent. There are many AA members who prefer to sit and listen at meetings.

Will AA respect my anonymity?

Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all AA’s traditions. Please respect this custom and treat in confidence who you see and what you hear. You can count on others to respect your anonymity.

What about religion?

Most AA members have a program based upon a personal belief in a Higher Power; there is no religious affiliation. What you believe is up to you. Many meetings open and close with a short prayer; participation is optional.

Are there dues or fees?

The AA groups pay certain services beyond rent, coffee/tea and literature. If help (so freely given to us) is to be available to every alcoholic, on the day he or she asks for help, we must support the national and local General Service Structures and Intergroup. Traditionally, AA groups are self-supporting. If you accept this principle, you will show your gratitude when the basket comes your way.

Only you can decide…

Whether or not you are an alcoholic… others may point out indications of a problem such as losing control, DUI arrests, lost jobs, broken marriages and families, blackouts, the shakes, etc. But only you can tell if you are actually alcoholic.

At AA meetings you’ll find people of all backgrounds. They all have one thing in common; they are all searching for the solution to their common malady, alcoholism. They are all trying to live a sober life, one day at a time. We hope that you will keep an open mind and give it a try… What do you have to lose?

If you have any questions feel free to call the Cape Cod Intergroup Office at: 508-775-7060 or Contact us with your questions and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can.

Good Luck and Safe Journey as you seek the answers to a better way of life.